Jesus told stories that opened the heart while closing the mouth. As opposition to His ministry hardened, He spoke in parables that revealed the Kingdom to those ready to hear and confirmed blindness in those who would not (Matthew 13:10–15). In the temple courts, during His final public confrontations, He told a story about a king, a son, a feast, and an invitation that many despised. The parable of the wedding feast lays bare the tragedy of refusing grace, the certainty of judgment on contempt, and the only way anyone may sit at the King’s table (Matthew 22:1–14).
Its images are simple and familiar, yet its stakes are eternal. A royal celebration is set for the king’s son. Invites go out. Messengers plead. Some shrug and walk away. Others attack the heralds. The king answers with righteous judgment and then fills the hall with guests gathered from the streets. Even there, one man tries to enter on his own terms and is cast out. Jesus ends with a line that pierces presumption and comforts the humble: many are invited, but few are chosen (Matthew 22:14). The story calls Israel to repent in her moment of decision, warns of near judgment, and opens a door of hope that will not be shut for those who come clothed as the King provides (Matthew 22:7; Romans 11:25–27; Revelation 19:7–9).
Words: 2558 / Time to read: 14 minutes
Historical and Cultural Background
A royal wedding in the ancient Near East was more than a private joy; it was a public sign of covenant life and national blessing. Kings hosted feasts that ran for days, and to refuse an invitation was not mere poor manners; it was an insult to the throne. To attack the king’s servants was rebellion. Jesus reaches for that world to frame His parable. The king pictures God the Father. The son is Jesus, the Messiah of Israel. The banquet anticipates the joy of the promised Kingdom, when the King reigns and His people share His gladness (Matthew 22:2; Isaiah 25:6–8; Matthew 26:29).
The two-stage invitation fits ancient custom. A first summons announced the day. A second message confirmed that everything was ready—the oxen butchered, the table set, the musicians tuned—and called the guests to come at once (Matthew 22:3–4). Jesus says the honored invitees refused, each turning to farms and business, and some seized the messengers, abused them, and killed them (Matthew 22:5–6). That line echoes Israel’s long history with the prophets, many of whom were rejected or slain for speaking in the Lord’s name (2 Chronicles 36:15–16; Matthew 23:37). It also looks forward to the way Jesus and His apostles would be treated in the days to come (Acts 7:52; Acts 12:1–3).
Wedding garments supplied by the host were also part of the picture. Clothing marked out readiness and respect. A generous king could clothe guests so that rich and poor alike were properly dressed, signaling both the honor of the event and the equal welcome extended by the host. To refuse that garment was to spurn the king’s kindness and to insist on entering by personal fitness. When Jesus describes the king moving through the hall and confronting a man without wedding clothes, His hearers would have felt the weight of that insult (Matthew 22:11–12). The man stands speechless because there is no defense for scorning what the king freely provided. The outcome is severe and just: removal from the feast and banishment to outer darkness, a phrase Jesus often uses for final judgment (Matthew 22:13; Matthew 8:11–12).
Biblical Narrative
Jesus begins, “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son” (Matthew 22:2). He sent servants to summon the invited guests, “but they refused to come” (Matthew 22:3). He sent others with a gracious appeal: “I have prepared my dinner… everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet” (Matthew 22:4). Some paid no attention and pursued their fields and trade, a picture of hearts lulled by ordinary life when the King calls (Matthew 22:5; Luke 14:18–20). Others seized the servants and killed them. The king responded as a king must: he sent his army, destroyed the murderers, and burned their city (Matthew 22:7). In the sweep of Matthew’s Gospel, that line anticipates the fall of Jerusalem within a generation, when unreadiness and unbelief bore bitter fruit (Luke 19:41–44; Matthew 24:2).
The king then turned his servants outward. “The banquet is ready,” he said, “but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find” (Matthew 22:8–9). They went out and gathered “all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good,” and the hall filled with guests (Matthew 22:10). The wideness of the call shines here. The king will have a full house. People with tangled pasts and people with quiet lives now sit side by side, not because they earned a chair but because they were found and welcomed by the king’s command (Isaiah 55:1; Romans 9:25–26).
When the king entered to greet his guests, he saw a man without wedding clothes. “Friend,” he asked, “how did you get in here without wedding clothes?” The man was speechless (Matthew 22:11–12). The king ordered him bound and cast “outside, into the darkness,” where there is “weeping and gnashing of teeth” (Matthew 22:13). Jesus closed with the line that explains the scene and steadies the soul: “For many are invited, but few are chosen” (Matthew 22:14). The invitation goes wide. The feast will be full. Only those who come as the king requires will remain.
Theological Significance
The parable addresses Israel first. Jesus tells it in the temple, to leaders who questioned His authority and plotted His death (Matthew 21:23; Matthew 22:15). The original invitees represent the nation’s leadership—the stewards of Scripture, temple, and hope—who were called to receive the King and lead the people in the joy of the feast (Romans 9:4–5). Their refusal mirrors a long pattern of rejecting the Lord’s messengers, and their hostility foreshadows what they would do to the Son (Matthew 21:33–39; Acts 3:14–15). The king’s burning of the city matches the sober warning Jesus wept over Jerusalem: because she did not recognize the time of God’s coming, enemies would encircle her and bring her down (Matthew 22:7; Luke 19:41–44). That judgment, felt in A.D. 70, did not erase God’s promises, but it did mark the cost of despising His call (Romans 11:1–5).
The servants gathering from the roads picture the wideness of God’s mercy. The invitation goes beyond the inner circle to the margins, and the hall fills with people “both good and bad” by worldly measure, all of them answering the king’s word (Matthew 22:9–10). The story does not teach that character is irrelevant; it teaches that entrance is by grace. The garment motif clarifies the point. No one sits at the King’s table by native worth. The only fitness for the feast is the clothing the King provides, the righteousness He gives to those who come empty-handed and believing. Isaiah sang, “He has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness,” and John saw the church dressed in “fine linen” given by God, “the righteous acts of God’s holy people” that flow from His gift (Isaiah 61:10; Revelation 19:7–8). Paul declares that we are saved by grace through faith, not by works, so that no one may boast, and that we “put on the Lord Jesus Christ,” living by the life He imparts (Ephesians 2:8–9; Romans 13:14).
From a grammatical-historical, dispensational reading, the parable also looks ahead. Jesus had announced the Kingdom to Israel and was rejected by leaders who loved place and power more than truth (John 11:47–53; Matthew 23:5–7). He then spoke of a later season when the gospel of the Kingdom would be announced to all nations, even as pressure intensifies in tribulation, future worldwide distress before Christ’s reign (Matthew 24:14; Matthew 24:21). In that darkest hour, God will raise witnesses, seal a remnant—the faithful few God preserves—and gather guests for the Son’s feast (Revelation 7:4–9; Revelation 11:3–6). The line “many are invited, but few are chosen” holds together the breadth of God’s call and the certainty of His saving purpose. Both realities stand in Scripture. The invitation is sincere and wide; the choice of God secures a people who will come clothed in what He supplies (John 6:37; Acts 13:48).
The parable does not erase the Israel–Church distinction. Israel’s national promises remain, and her future restoration is sure when she looks on the One she pierced and is cleansed (Romans 11:25–29; Zechariah 12:10). At the same time, in this present age the Church—a people from every nation who believe in the Son—tastes the firstfruits of the feast and bears witness to the King’s invitation until He comes (Acts 15:14; 1 Corinthians 11:26). The wedding supper of the Lamb is promised, and the clothing for that day is not stitched by human pride but received by faith and lived out in a life made new (Revelation 19:9; Titus 2:11–14).
Spiritual Lessons and Application
The first lesson is to take the King’s invitation seriously. Some in the story “paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business,” treating the summons to joy as a mild interruption (Matthew 22:5). Jesus had warned that the cares of life can choke the word so that it proves unfruitful, and He called His hearers to seek first the Kingdom and His righteousness (Matthew 13:22; Matthew 6:33). Ordinary duties are good, but when good things keep us from God Himself, they become a quiet path to ruin. Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your heart. Come when the King calls (Hebrews 3:15; Isaiah 55:6–7).
A second lesson is to expect judgment on contempt. Others in the parable “seized his servants, mistreated them and killed them,” and the king “sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city” (Matthew 22:6–7). God’s patience is great, but it is not approval of sin. He sent prophets early and often; He sent His Son. To spurn such mercy provokes right wrath, and history bears witness to that truth (2 Chronicles 36:15–17; Luke 20:13–16). The scene is not a call to human violence; it is a warning that the King of heaven will judge with equity. Jesus’ words about “outer darkness” and “weeping and gnashing of teeth” are not figures of a bad mood but markers of final loss for those who will not come (Matthew 22:13; Matthew 8:12).
A third lesson is to come on the King’s terms. The man without wedding clothes shows that it is possible to be in the hall and yet unready for the host (Matthew 22:11–12). He wants the feast without the garment, the joy without the righteousness God gives. Scripture will not let us believe that we can enter by our own goodness. We must be clothed by Another. That clothing is Christ Himself. God makes us right with Himself through faith in His Son, and then He trains us to live in a way that fits the gift we wear (Romans 3:21–24; Galatians 3:27). Repentance and faith receive the garment; a new life displays it in deeds of love that flow from grace (James 2:17–18; Ephesians 4:22–24).
A fourth lesson is to share the invitation widely with hope. The king sent servants to the streets and crossroads until the hall was full (Matthew 22:9–10). Jesus has given His people a similar charge: go and make disciples of all nations, heralding the good news with open hands and open hearts (Matthew 28:19–20; Romans 10:14–15). We do not sort people by worth; we call everyone to come, confident that the King will gather those He has purposed to save. In hard places and easy ones, among the poor and the powerful, at kitchen tables and in crowded cities, the same word stands: everything is ready. Come to the wedding feast (Luke 14:17; John 6:37).
A fifth lesson is to read the times with sobriety and hope. Jesus told this parable on the way to the cross, with the city’s ruin in view, and with a future day of joy beyond that ruin (Matthew 22:7; Luke 19:41–44; Hebrews 12:2). In the season ahead—tribulation, future worldwide distress before Christ’s reign—the Lord will again send witnesses who call Israel and the nations to the King, and a remnant—the faithful few God preserves—will come dressed in what He supplies (Revelation 7:4–9; Revelation 11:3–6). Until then, the Church watches, prays, and works, eager for the sound of the Bridegroom’s voice and the day when faith becomes sight (Matthew 25:13; Revelation 22:17).
Conclusion
The parable of the wedding feast brings us to the threshold of the King’s hall and asks one question: will you come, and will you come as He requires? Israel’s leaders turned away in their hour of visitation, and within a generation their city burned, just as Jesus said (Matthew 22:7; Luke 19:41–44). Yet the King’s heart was not emptied by their refusal. He sent servants into the streets until the hall was full, and He still sends them now. The invitation is wide, the joy is real, and the clothing is provided at the King’s expense (Matthew 22:9–10; Isaiah 61:10). Do not ignore the call. Do not presume to enter in your own clothes. Receive what He offers in His Son and find your place at the table.
For Israel then and for Israel yet, the story is a road sign. Refusal brings loss; repentance brings joy, and the day is coming when the nation will look on the pierced Son and be cleansed, entering the feast in the righteousness God gives (Zechariah 12:10; Romans 11:26–27). For the Church now, the story is a charge. Invite many. Keep the gospel plain. Dress in Christ. Wait with lamps lit and hands busy. The King has prepared a banquet for His Son, and blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb (Revelation 19:9; John 3:29). Everything is ready. Come.
“Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear.” (Revelation 19:7–8)
Want to Go Deeper?
This post is adapted from my book, The Parables of Jesus: Covert Communication from the King (Grace and Knowledge Series, Book 7), where I explore each parable’s dispensational significance and prophetic meaning in greater depth.
Read the full book on Amazon →
All Scripture quoted from:
New International Version (NIV)
Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV® Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
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The Parable of the Wedding Feast – Matthew 22:1–14
Published by Brother Woody BrohmJesus told stories that opened the heart while closing the mouth. As opposition to His ministry hardened, He spoke in parables that revealed the Kingdom to those ready to hear and confirmed blindness in those who would not (Matthew 13:10–15). In the temple courts, during His final public confrontations, He told a story about a king, a son, a feast, and an invitation that many despised. The parable of the wedding feast lays bare the tragedy of refusing grace, the certainty of judgment on contempt, and the only way anyone may sit at the King’s table (Matthew 22:1–14).
Its images are simple and familiar, yet its stakes are eternal. A royal celebration is set for the king’s son. Invites go out. Messengers plead. Some shrug and walk away. Others attack the heralds. The king answers with righteous judgment and then fills the hall with guests gathered from the streets. Even there, one man tries to enter on his own terms and is cast out. Jesus ends with a line that pierces presumption and comforts the humble: many are invited, but few are chosen (Matthew 22:14). The story calls Israel to repent in her moment of decision, warns of near judgment, and opens a door of hope that will not be shut for those who come clothed as the King provides (Matthew 22:7; Romans 11:25–27; Revelation 19:7–9).
Words: 2558 / Time to read: 14 minutes
Historical and Cultural Background
A royal wedding in the ancient Near East was more than a private joy; it was a public sign of covenant life and national blessing. Kings hosted feasts that ran for days, and to refuse an invitation was not mere poor manners; it was an insult to the throne. To attack the king’s servants was rebellion. Jesus reaches for that world to frame His parable. The king pictures God the Father. The son is Jesus, the Messiah of Israel. The banquet anticipates the joy of the promised Kingdom, when the King reigns and His people share His gladness (Matthew 22:2; Isaiah 25:6–8; Matthew 26:29).
The two-stage invitation fits ancient custom. A first summons announced the day. A second message confirmed that everything was ready—the oxen butchered, the table set, the musicians tuned—and called the guests to come at once (Matthew 22:3–4). Jesus says the honored invitees refused, each turning to farms and business, and some seized the messengers, abused them, and killed them (Matthew 22:5–6). That line echoes Israel’s long history with the prophets, many of whom were rejected or slain for speaking in the Lord’s name (2 Chronicles 36:15–16; Matthew 23:37). It also looks forward to the way Jesus and His apostles would be treated in the days to come (Acts 7:52; Acts 12:1–3).
Wedding garments supplied by the host were also part of the picture. Clothing marked out readiness and respect. A generous king could clothe guests so that rich and poor alike were properly dressed, signaling both the honor of the event and the equal welcome extended by the host. To refuse that garment was to spurn the king’s kindness and to insist on entering by personal fitness. When Jesus describes the king moving through the hall and confronting a man without wedding clothes, His hearers would have felt the weight of that insult (Matthew 22:11–12). The man stands speechless because there is no defense for scorning what the king freely provided. The outcome is severe and just: removal from the feast and banishment to outer darkness, a phrase Jesus often uses for final judgment (Matthew 22:13; Matthew 8:11–12).
Biblical Narrative
Jesus begins, “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son” (Matthew 22:2). He sent servants to summon the invited guests, “but they refused to come” (Matthew 22:3). He sent others with a gracious appeal: “I have prepared my dinner… everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet” (Matthew 22:4). Some paid no attention and pursued their fields and trade, a picture of hearts lulled by ordinary life when the King calls (Matthew 22:5; Luke 14:18–20). Others seized the servants and killed them. The king responded as a king must: he sent his army, destroyed the murderers, and burned their city (Matthew 22:7). In the sweep of Matthew’s Gospel, that line anticipates the fall of Jerusalem within a generation, when unreadiness and unbelief bore bitter fruit (Luke 19:41–44; Matthew 24:2).
The king then turned his servants outward. “The banquet is ready,” he said, “but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find” (Matthew 22:8–9). They went out and gathered “all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good,” and the hall filled with guests (Matthew 22:10). The wideness of the call shines here. The king will have a full house. People with tangled pasts and people with quiet lives now sit side by side, not because they earned a chair but because they were found and welcomed by the king’s command (Isaiah 55:1; Romans 9:25–26).
When the king entered to greet his guests, he saw a man without wedding clothes. “Friend,” he asked, “how did you get in here without wedding clothes?” The man was speechless (Matthew 22:11–12). The king ordered him bound and cast “outside, into the darkness,” where there is “weeping and gnashing of teeth” (Matthew 22:13). Jesus closed with the line that explains the scene and steadies the soul: “For many are invited, but few are chosen” (Matthew 22:14). The invitation goes wide. The feast will be full. Only those who come as the king requires will remain.
Theological Significance
The parable addresses Israel first. Jesus tells it in the temple, to leaders who questioned His authority and plotted His death (Matthew 21:23; Matthew 22:15). The original invitees represent the nation’s leadership—the stewards of Scripture, temple, and hope—who were called to receive the King and lead the people in the joy of the feast (Romans 9:4–5). Their refusal mirrors a long pattern of rejecting the Lord’s messengers, and their hostility foreshadows what they would do to the Son (Matthew 21:33–39; Acts 3:14–15). The king’s burning of the city matches the sober warning Jesus wept over Jerusalem: because she did not recognize the time of God’s coming, enemies would encircle her and bring her down (Matthew 22:7; Luke 19:41–44). That judgment, felt in A.D. 70, did not erase God’s promises, but it did mark the cost of despising His call (Romans 11:1–5).
The servants gathering from the roads picture the wideness of God’s mercy. The invitation goes beyond the inner circle to the margins, and the hall fills with people “both good and bad” by worldly measure, all of them answering the king’s word (Matthew 22:9–10). The story does not teach that character is irrelevant; it teaches that entrance is by grace. The garment motif clarifies the point. No one sits at the King’s table by native worth. The only fitness for the feast is the clothing the King provides, the righteousness He gives to those who come empty-handed and believing. Isaiah sang, “He has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness,” and John saw the church dressed in “fine linen” given by God, “the righteous acts of God’s holy people” that flow from His gift (Isaiah 61:10; Revelation 19:7–8). Paul declares that we are saved by grace through faith, not by works, so that no one may boast, and that we “put on the Lord Jesus Christ,” living by the life He imparts (Ephesians 2:8–9; Romans 13:14).
From a grammatical-historical, dispensational reading, the parable also looks ahead. Jesus had announced the Kingdom to Israel and was rejected by leaders who loved place and power more than truth (John 11:47–53; Matthew 23:5–7). He then spoke of a later season when the gospel of the Kingdom would be announced to all nations, even as pressure intensifies in tribulation, future worldwide distress before Christ’s reign (Matthew 24:14; Matthew 24:21). In that darkest hour, God will raise witnesses, seal a remnant—the faithful few God preserves—and gather guests for the Son’s feast (Revelation 7:4–9; Revelation 11:3–6). The line “many are invited, but few are chosen” holds together the breadth of God’s call and the certainty of His saving purpose. Both realities stand in Scripture. The invitation is sincere and wide; the choice of God secures a people who will come clothed in what He supplies (John 6:37; Acts 13:48).
The parable does not erase the Israel–Church distinction. Israel’s national promises remain, and her future restoration is sure when she looks on the One she pierced and is cleansed (Romans 11:25–29; Zechariah 12:10). At the same time, in this present age the Church—a people from every nation who believe in the Son—tastes the firstfruits of the feast and bears witness to the King’s invitation until He comes (Acts 15:14; 1 Corinthians 11:26). The wedding supper of the Lamb is promised, and the clothing for that day is not stitched by human pride but received by faith and lived out in a life made new (Revelation 19:9; Titus 2:11–14).
Spiritual Lessons and Application
The first lesson is to take the King’s invitation seriously. Some in the story “paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business,” treating the summons to joy as a mild interruption (Matthew 22:5). Jesus had warned that the cares of life can choke the word so that it proves unfruitful, and He called His hearers to seek first the Kingdom and His righteousness (Matthew 13:22; Matthew 6:33). Ordinary duties are good, but when good things keep us from God Himself, they become a quiet path to ruin. Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your heart. Come when the King calls (Hebrews 3:15; Isaiah 55:6–7).
A second lesson is to expect judgment on contempt. Others in the parable “seized his servants, mistreated them and killed them,” and the king “sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city” (Matthew 22:6–7). God’s patience is great, but it is not approval of sin. He sent prophets early and often; He sent His Son. To spurn such mercy provokes right wrath, and history bears witness to that truth (2 Chronicles 36:15–17; Luke 20:13–16). The scene is not a call to human violence; it is a warning that the King of heaven will judge with equity. Jesus’ words about “outer darkness” and “weeping and gnashing of teeth” are not figures of a bad mood but markers of final loss for those who will not come (Matthew 22:13; Matthew 8:12).
A third lesson is to come on the King’s terms. The man without wedding clothes shows that it is possible to be in the hall and yet unready for the host (Matthew 22:11–12). He wants the feast without the garment, the joy without the righteousness God gives. Scripture will not let us believe that we can enter by our own goodness. We must be clothed by Another. That clothing is Christ Himself. God makes us right with Himself through faith in His Son, and then He trains us to live in a way that fits the gift we wear (Romans 3:21–24; Galatians 3:27). Repentance and faith receive the garment; a new life displays it in deeds of love that flow from grace (James 2:17–18; Ephesians 4:22–24).
A fourth lesson is to share the invitation widely with hope. The king sent servants to the streets and crossroads until the hall was full (Matthew 22:9–10). Jesus has given His people a similar charge: go and make disciples of all nations, heralding the good news with open hands and open hearts (Matthew 28:19–20; Romans 10:14–15). We do not sort people by worth; we call everyone to come, confident that the King will gather those He has purposed to save. In hard places and easy ones, among the poor and the powerful, at kitchen tables and in crowded cities, the same word stands: everything is ready. Come to the wedding feast (Luke 14:17; John 6:37).
A fifth lesson is to read the times with sobriety and hope. Jesus told this parable on the way to the cross, with the city’s ruin in view, and with a future day of joy beyond that ruin (Matthew 22:7; Luke 19:41–44; Hebrews 12:2). In the season ahead—tribulation, future worldwide distress before Christ’s reign—the Lord will again send witnesses who call Israel and the nations to the King, and a remnant—the faithful few God preserves—will come dressed in what He supplies (Revelation 7:4–9; Revelation 11:3–6). Until then, the Church watches, prays, and works, eager for the sound of the Bridegroom’s voice and the day when faith becomes sight (Matthew 25:13; Revelation 22:17).
Conclusion
The parable of the wedding feast brings us to the threshold of the King’s hall and asks one question: will you come, and will you come as He requires? Israel’s leaders turned away in their hour of visitation, and within a generation their city burned, just as Jesus said (Matthew 22:7; Luke 19:41–44). Yet the King’s heart was not emptied by their refusal. He sent servants into the streets until the hall was full, and He still sends them now. The invitation is wide, the joy is real, and the clothing is provided at the King’s expense (Matthew 22:9–10; Isaiah 61:10). Do not ignore the call. Do not presume to enter in your own clothes. Receive what He offers in His Son and find your place at the table.
For Israel then and for Israel yet, the story is a road sign. Refusal brings loss; repentance brings joy, and the day is coming when the nation will look on the pierced Son and be cleansed, entering the feast in the righteousness God gives (Zechariah 12:10; Romans 11:26–27). For the Church now, the story is a charge. Invite many. Keep the gospel plain. Dress in Christ. Wait with lamps lit and hands busy. The King has prepared a banquet for His Son, and blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb (Revelation 19:9; John 3:29). Everything is ready. Come.
Want to Go Deeper?
This post is adapted from my book, The Parables of Jesus: Covert Communication from the King (Grace and Knowledge Series, Book 7), where I explore each parable’s dispensational significance and prophetic meaning in greater depth.
Read the full book on Amazon →
All Scripture quoted from:
New International Version (NIV)
Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV® Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
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